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Family Harmony and Love

पारिवारिक सुख
Remedies, methods and answers for this goal, with the samagri, places and timings they use.
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Also known asgriha kleshhusband wife disputeslovejhagda

Remedies, methods and rules

Principle

Gravitational Force: Keep the Whole Building Level and in Plumb

Gravitational force acts between the earth and every building, object and person. When columns, beams, walls, plaster and elevation are aligned with plumb line and level, the force stays balanced and the occupants remain healthy and alert; misalignment brings obstacles, illness and loss.

Plinth beam, columns, beams, walls and elevation

Principleब्रह्मस्थान दोष

Never in the Brahmasthan: Stairs, Main Door, Locker, Pits, Basement or Kitchen

Stairs, the main door, a locker, a pit, boring or dug well, a basement confined to the centre, a store room, a garage or a kitchen must not be built in the Brahmasthan. Each causes serious harm, from illness in the family to quarrels and ruin.

Brahmasthan (the nine central squares) and the brahm bindu (exact centre)

Principleपृथ्वी तत्व

Earth Element (Prithvi Tatva): Attributes, Zone and Effects in the House

The earth element is golden yellow, square, located in the South-West and solid, heavy and dense by nature; in a house it is represented by the land energy, the plot shape and the slope. Balanced, it gives the greatest stability and success; disturbed, it brings business uncertainty and unhealthy relationships.

South-West zone; in the house it is the land energy, plot shape and slope

Principle

Keep Artifacts With Friend Elements; Enemy Placement Brings Sudden Losses

Every direction and every artifact represents an element, so an artifact, picture or scenery should sit with its friend element. Placed beside an enemy element it causes unrest at home and losses in business.

Any home, factory, shop or office where artifacts, pictures or sceneries are placed

Principle

East Zone: Social Contact, Sweetness and the East-Facing Deity

With sunrise the sun brings its full energy into the East, filling flowers and fruits with sweetness. The East is the zone of social contact, used to build sweetness in relationships, and its perfect magnetic balance is why the face of the deity is kept towards the East.

East zone; deity facing East; fruit trees in the East

Principleशल्य

Other Shalya: Buried Furnace, Coal, Ash, Fossils and Kaudi

Besides bones, coal, ash, some animal fossils and kaudi in the ground act as shalya. A furnace (bhatti) left buried under a building ruins the family and the business, and kaudi must never be buried, although gomti chakra can be.

Underground in any plot

Principleवायु तत्व

Air Element: Flag Shape, Green, North-West, Kansa

In Vedic vastu (not feng shui) the air element has a flag-like shape, green colour, North-West location and kansa (bell metal) as its metal; the main door, windows, balcony, garden, plants and floor-to-slab height represent it.

North-West

Principle

Avoid the Direction of a Weak Planet for Facing, Bedroom and Study

Each planet rules a direction (Sun East, Mercury North, Saturn West, Rahu South-West); if that planet is debilitated, badly placed or very low in degree in a person's kundli, a house facing, bedroom, office seat or study in its direction harms them.

House facing, master bedroom, office seat and study place

Principleतत्वों का सह संबंध

Co-relation of Elements: Match the Person, the Room and the Activity

The first principle of interior vastu: identify the element of the person, of the structure being built and of the activity done there, and make sure these elements are friends.

Any room or structure: bedroom, office, kitchen, factory, study table

Principle

Whose Kundli to Use: Owner for Facing, Each Member for Their Own Room

The house facing, main door and common areas are chosen from the grih swami's (owner's) kundli, while each member's bedroom and study are planned from that member's own kundli.

House facing, main door, drawing room, kitchen, bedrooms and study rooms

Principle

Basis of Interior Planning: Goal, Kundali, Current Flow and Planet Yogas

Before any interior, fix the goal of the space, study the owner's kundali, check the current (energy) flow and base every arrangement, colour and artifact on planet combinations. Harmful yogas of the kundali must never be recreated with artifacts, while good yogas should be built.

Whole interior of a home, shop or factory

Principleचित्र से चित्त

Chitra se Chitta: Pictures and Portraits at Home Shape Emotions

Interior vastu is emotion and action controlled by the interior: what the eye sees daily at home changes the mind. Pictures of God and loving family scenes bring good thoughts, while vulgar, violent or sorrowful images change emotions at once.

Living areas and rooms of the house

Principleसांगोपांग

Full-Length Family Photos and Whole-Body Statues, No Close-Ups or Cut Figures

Family photos at home should show the whole family complete from head to feet, with no hand or foot cut, and statues or idols should show the full body. Close-up face photos and cut or bust figures bring trouble.

Family photos, statues and idols anywhere in the house

Questions and answers

All 17 questions
Our house has a badly polluted North with a bathroom, and the family faces many problems and quarrels. How can it be corrected?

The North must be corrected and the land energy improved. Where the energy is good, any defects present give only about half their bad results. Household quarrels (grih klesh) are natural while such defects remain.

A house has its entry in the Agni kon (South-East), an underground water tank in the South-East with the stairs over it, and the slope running to the South. The family fights constantly. What is the remedy?

Either leave the house or treat it: close the South-East underground water tank immediately and correct the slope. The staircase can stay. An overhead tank in the South-East is acceptable.

If the Brahmasthan is kept open on the ground floor, should the same area be kept open on every upper floor?

Keeping it open on all floors is excellent. If that is not possible, a double height open at the Brahmasthan, for example about 20 ft, still balances the space element even if it is closed above. A survey found that houses with a double height at the Brahmasthan had more happiness and peace.

Why do even small children argue with their parents nowadays?

Every house used to have ventilators at the top of the walls, which balanced the air element. They have been brought down into the windows, and since the ventilator location changed even a ten-year-old child argues back. Keep the air element balanced with proper doors, windows, top ventilation and cross-ventilation.

Shikhi gives clear vision in a house; if family members are lazy, do no work and lack clear vision, is that the same dosh?

Yes, that is the same Shikhi dosh: when Shikhi is defective, the minds of the residents stay blocked.

How can yellow mustard help a couple heading for divorce who have lived apart for over a year?

Write both names on gomti chakra, at least five of them, and put them with about 125 g of energised yellow mustard in a potli. Whoever wants the relationship keeps it under their mattress and every day gives the command that the partner has come back and is on the bed. This brings back friendly behaviour.

A consultant had 2.5 kg of yellow mustard kept under a bed in the South-West; a year later dowsing showed strong negativity and there were daily quarrels. Can yellow mustard create negativity?

Yellow mustard that was washed, energised and commanded cannot give negativity. Mustard simply bought from the market and placed without purification and command does not work, even a ton of it in a shop, and it may bring negativity from wherever it came. Incomplete knowledge is very dangerous.

In the case where all four family members had a weak Sun, why would four separate kundlis show the same pattern?

Members of one family almost always have nearly the same planetary placements; there is a symmetry among their charts, and that is why they are born into the same family. In that case the Sun was badly placed in all four charts, so the East-facing house harmed the whole family.

If one family member has a planet exalted and another has it debilitated, should that planet's items be kept in the interior?

Decide room by room. In your own bedroom use the materials of your exalted planet and not of your debilitated one; your daughter's bedroom is designed from her kundli. The house facing and common areas such as the drawing room and kitchen are decided from the grih swami's kundli. Many people make the master bedroom in the South-West by default, which is wrong when Rahu is debilitated: such people suffered there and got very good results after moving to another direction.

If a person sits in the South-East for long periods, will their nature change?

Yes. Sitting a lot in the South-East, the fire zone, increases aggressiveness and irritation.

A couple sleeps in the SW; one has an exalted Rahu and the other a debilitated Rahu. Can they sleep there?

Yes. After marriage, as in the hathleva ritual, the planets of one partner overlap the other, and the exalted planet's influence prevails.

What happens if the kitchen is in the North-North-West?

A kitchen in the North-North-West brings quarrels between husband and wife and discord (klesh) in the home; this has been seen in many houses.